I want to tell you a “lovely” story about my personal experience on cyberbullying. This happened when I was about 13 or 14 years old (around the 2011-2012).
It was a PC multiplayer car game called Need For Speed World…
The story will continue and it’s going to be a long one.
So grab your mug of coffee or tea and let’s get right into it!
Let’s call this bully “Eve” (just so I don’t expose her identity). My other “friend” Nick (not his real name) was her enemy at the time.
Apparently, what happened was, Nick and Eve had an argument over something and apparently they became enemies (from what Nick says, I really don’t know the other story).
As Nick’s friend, he told me all the nasty things about Eve.
Nick told me to block her so I did (because I was his friend and immature at the time).
I was also friends with this guy who was also friends with Eve. Let’s call him Chris.
How it all started…
Apparently, Chris told me that Eve told him that I blocked her. He asked me to unblock her and so, with the innocent little girl I was, I did (and really, I regret that and wish I didn’t unblock her).
Chris invited me to his party which involved Eve and their other friends. I did not know they were in his party. So I asked him if I could invite one of my friends to the party and he said: “go ahead”.
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I invited Nick to the party. That’s when sh*t went down. Eve and her friends were saying really nasty things to both of us, including me because I was friends with Nick.
They were saying things like “get out of the party” “leave we don’t want you here” and then we left but before we left, both of us said nasty things back at them out of anger.
After that, I blocked her the second time. Both Nick and I started having a rebelling between Eve and her best friend “Vanessa”.
If you’re with the enemy, then you’re also our enemy
Days, weeks, months gone past and we still have the hatred for each other. We’ve gone against each other by getting our crews or “gangs” and driving into her every single day (Not to sound dirty or anything. It’s a game of course so we could drive into people’s other cars just to throw some disrespect).
One day, I’ve become friends with one of the moderators. Let’s call her Katy. I introduced Katy to Nick and they weren’t good in terms, and apparently, Nick was also immature and blocked Katy for some odd reason.
Then one day we see Katy with Eve, and as immature we are, we started to hate on Katy for being Eve’s “best friend”.Once you're friends with an enemy that we hate, then you've become our enemy. #enemy #exfriends Click To Tweet
1 Year Later…
The hate went on for many years now. Soon, we used other people to gain popularity and hatred on the other gang (which was terrible in my opinion). We use to call her a raccoon because she did her makeup like those emos and scenes.
When the game started dying down, my boyfriend at the time, introduced me to the game League of Legends in 2013 that I didn’t really care for Eve anymore. At the same time, I got banned from NFSW (for many reasons) and then transferred to LoL at the end of 2013.
That’s my experience with a cyberbully.
I was young and immature. Made mistakes and now I realise how immature and stupid I was. But it did give me a good laugh.
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